Jamar Turner proposed on Mother's Day 2014.  He got up, got dress, and left.  I thought he was either going to gym, to service, or to one of family or friends house. I saw the ring before, I saw the proposal, becuase he can't "hold water," he text me a picture of the ring.  I was still very surprise and in shock to see, he was making this choice on his own, with no PRESSURE!